Dear Mrs. Geri VanHecke:
Your son was a gift to me. I never envisioned that would happen when we were first roommates. But I changed and he changed as we grew. Your son desired integrity, wisdom, to do what is right, and to please his Mother and Father. He worried about his siblings, but spoke of them in the light of love at the same time. He was bright, intelligent, always open to conversation and the sharing of ideas. He worked really hard in college to develop a foundation to be an excellent teacher. Effort that paid off years later.
Towards the end of his career, national politics and ideology started to to steal some of the things he loved about his vocation. But he adapted and gave back in so many ways. When he could have marked time to retirement, he instead gave his utmost to Science Olympiad. Your daughter-in-law pitching in with her best effort.
I can say Mark was more than a friend. He was someone to admire and emulate.
Unfortunately, you all to well understand what it is like to lose a good friend. I, on the other hand, have not lost a son. I can only extrapolate at the grief you feel and the sense of loss you will live with for the rest of your life. I am so sorry.
Thank you so much for your part in forming your son to be my best friend for almost four decades. I love him and I love you.
Chris