Patrick Douglas Packer's Obituary
Patrick Douglas Packer of Grosse Pointe, Michigan passed away December 12, 2020. He was 77 when he left this Earth. Pat was the first-born child of Fred (“Bud”) and Dorothy (“Dot”) Packer (nee Gaul). He grew up in Detroit and the City always remained near to his heart – a love which he passed down to his children and grandchildren.
Pat became a Journeymen in 1968 and he worked as a Pattern and Model Maker for the automotive industry until he retired. Pat married the first love of his life, Suzanne Packer (nee Leyshock) in 1970. They moved to St. Clair Township in 1984. Pat and Suzy shared a love of horses and spent many hours on the homestead with their beloved Frankie (their Friesian horse/son).
Sadly, Suzy passed away in May 2008 after a battle with cancer. Pat continued to work the “farm” for many years and spent much of his time honing his Pickleball and Bridge skills. He was a determined player in both and enjoyed each immensely. Pat walked away with a sense of pride whenever he could tip the scale and beat one of his buddies.
In 2013, Pat met the second love of his life, Jeannie Fellows and shortly after he moved down to the City of Grosse Pointe. Pat and Jeannie took many trips together traveling across the United States, always having fun and living life to the fullest. Pat was the guy at a party who everyone wanted to be around – he would always have a joke at the ready (no matter the situation). Pat will be remembered by those who loved him as a warrior who never gave up; a father/grandfather who would move mountains for his kids; a companion who was always up for anything; a competitor with a temper, but who was always gracious, and a man with the biggest heart and kindest soul you could ever meet.
Pat is preceded in death by his wife, Suzanne Packer and his sister, Susan Walter. He is survived by his daughters, Bree (his son, Kurt) Hoski and Polly Packer; his grandchildren Merrill and Emmet Hoski; his girlfriend, Jeannie Fellows; his brothers and sister Dan (Karen) Packer, Ken (Kathy) Packer and Pamela Packer; and many nieces, nephews, friends, family (Leyshock clan) and loved ones.
Cremation has taken place and a memorial service will be held at a later date at one of his all-time favourite places, The Pinery. Tribute contributions to honor Pat may be made to International Leonard Peltier Defense Committee or DFT/DSO. RIP Poppa P ♧★ To leave a message of comfort visit www.youngcolonial.com
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